We all have different style of talking, laughing, smiling, responding and
communicating. Some of us are a comfort for others. We enjoy being with some
people and we don’t enjoy some people. What is the difference between these
persons? Why one persons presence enlivens the gathering an other person dulls
it? What are the qualities needed to make one self socially popular?Smile The
very first quality is smile. When we see some body smiling, we feel pleased. And
if the smile is without any malice it is more enchanting. Keep smiling. Keep
your problems with yourself and keep your face smiling.Listening when we don’t
speak but only listen, people love us. All of us have our own problems and need
somebody to listen to us. Become a good listener. Ask open ended question such
as and after that? Why? And so on. That will encourage the speaker to pour out
all to you.Have something funny to say There is enough pain in the world. Bring
in some laughter. Have a collection of jokes and make your friends laugh. The
more they laugh, the more they will enjoy your company.Appreciate have a word of
appreciation for everyone. You can appreciate some body clothes, or shoes or
what ever. Appreciate. Make friends feel good.To be friendly and to be charming
is not an art. It can be easily developed by all of us. The only need is to pay
less attention to our self and more to others. Make friends happy and they will
love your presence. Make your presence the life of any gathering. Success is
yours.

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The fact of continually hearing so many stories of love and relationships,
including the breakdowns make us wonder if love really exists anymore. The
different kind of stories including love that leads to harm, love that leads to
death, and love that can lead to hope, tell us much about the different types of
love available.

When we think of the story of Bonnie and Clyde, we often wonder what bonded
these two humans together. The couple remained faithful up until their death in
a good relationship and with faithful love between them. Yet, their love was
obviously misplaced. The love constructed on desire lead to death since the two
joined in criminal activities that caused harm and death at the end of the
relationship. The story of Bonnie and Clyde is a surefire example of
compatibility, yet it illustrates the difference between unconditional love and
superficial love.

Both Bonnie and Clyde came from the same origins, this is, poverty stricken
homes. Both of them were tired of bad relationships and teamed up to commit acts
of violence at the same time that acts of crime. During their involvement as a
couple, the two partners remained faithful and loyal to each other, and often
illustrated the true meaning of love, since it took death to separate the two.
While the two had the human mechanism needed to originate love, the two also had
harmful intentions of the type of relationship they would join.

While Bonnie and Clyde relationships are a thing of the past, there are
couples today that join in relationships with good intentions, but harmful
habits and this often leads to anticipated disaster.

There are many examples of harmful relationships in case studies around the
world, captured in papers, media, etc. An example of a harmful relationship can
be appreciated in the following story. It started out with the seemingly perfect
relationship, which grew to the seemingly perfect family. The traditional family
composed of father, mother, and children. The father worked daily in a mental
health clinic, while the mother worked both at home and outside home. The father
was later murdered by his wife and made the public wonder how such a seemingly
perfect family arrangement turned so bad.

It turned out that the father while appearing loving in public, was
manifesting violence and abusive behaviors at home while always keeping a low
profile. Under this conditions the mother got tired and fed up with the
situation, she addressed the issue in a desperate manner, which turned into the
extreme physical act of murder.

As you can see, human mechanisms and elements that compose love were lacking
in this family, since obviously the man had no respect for his family, or
members.

Unfortunately, not every book has a cover that shows the reality of the story
inside. Equally, there are persons that do not always present their real face to
the person that will be his mate in a relationship. A person can live years with
another individual and never detect flaws that could lead to harm, until the
dark day arrives and ugly things happen. Others leave trails that indicate
potential harm, but the partner being so much in love, and with lots of
expectations fails to see the traits and evidence that is put in front of his
eyes throughout the relationship.

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A root of bitterness can easily spring up in the marital relationship, as
living within such close proximity of a person there are ample opportunities to
be offended. If you are not careful offenses and neglect can sever you from
meaningful relationship and thwart the marital union. A person who is bitter can
respond in a number of ways from employing the cold shoulder treatment, to
lashing out in anger, verbalizing profanity and obscenities, and at the
emotional breaking point contemptfully resort to adultery to fully manifest
their defiance.Maintaining a good attitude and right mindset toward your spouse
is work. Such mental exertion is not for the faint in heart. You have to be
willing to fight for your marriage.To sustain a loving, life giving marriage
both must be sober minded and alert to the seductions of the soul. Not only must
you guard your own heart, but you must also discern the traps and snares that
might beset your spouse when they are away from the house.Most importantly
happily and wholeheartedly attend to one another’s needs emotional and physical
to fill one another’s love tank and fortify the union. Remember people don’t
typically get out of a Rolls Royce to ride in a VW. Neither do spouses wander
away looking for hamburgers when they are being served filet mignon at
home.Therefore serve and feed one another’s needs lest another does. Remember
men if you don’t take your wives out on a date, someone else will. Ladies, if
you don’t seduce your husband rest assured another woman will.Men compliment
your wives and affirm their beauty and exceptional qualities. The more you
affirm women the more they open up like a flower unto you.Ladies a man can be
won by caring for him from his chest to his knees. He’s rather simple. Feed him
and make love to him.Divorce is no fun. I have been there and experienced it
myself. I know. It helps to remember the painful consequences of infidelity
before you take the plunge into sexual immorality.Among the many reasons to be
faithful to your spouse and not cheat on them are as follows:1.You might get
dismembered, maimed or killed. John Bobbit’s wife cut his penis off when he
cheated on her. Others have had knives and guns used on them when they cheated
on their spouses. Next time you cheat remember it might be your last as death
may be near.2.Fear of getting caught torments the soul. Fear has torment and
puts you in a continual state of alert. Life on the run is no way to live. In
your patience possess your soul and harness your bodily appetites lest you be
enslaved to them. There are many who are emotional fugitives living life on the
run in their own marriages. Secrecy and continually tried to hide every little
clue and indiscretion is not a meaningful existence.3.Adultery destroys not only
your marriage but also your children as they grow up without emotional stability
and a firm family foundation. By committing you not only curse yourself but your
offspring. Is it really worth perpetuating pain onward into your future and
posterity? I think not. Get a grip and some psychological counseling if need
be.4.Adultery dishonors you and diminishes you as a person. Suddenly your word
no longer means anything. You therefore become incongruent and begin to doubt
even yourself, realizing that you are double minded and given to dishonesty.
Remember your word equals your worth.5.You reap what you sow. What comes around
goes around. Don’t be so self absorbed to think that you too will not suffer a
similar situation when your spouse finds out about your misbehavior. Humans can
be very vengeful and rarely hold back when they desire to get even. A spouse
gone evil can become an arch enemy when they turn on you, as they no just how to
get you where it hurts the most. Therefore respect and uphold your spouse so you
too will receive the same in return.You had enough confidence and certainty in
that person to marry them. Why then should you cheat on them and disregard all
of your marital history, fond memories and the future which you have together.
Don’t do it!Marriage only gets better over time as you hang in there and work
through your differences, seek mutual understanding, prefer one another and
cooperatively work through your issues believing for the best.Your best days and
your blessed days are ahead of you!Paul Davis is author of Breakthrough for a
Broken Heart a book telling us “How to overcome disappointments and blossom into
your dreams!” He is a minister, life coach (relational & professional),
dating expert, popular worldwide keynote speaker, creative consultant, humor
being, adventurer, explorer, mediator, liberator and dream maker.Paul’s
compassion for people & passion to travel has taken him to over 50 countries
of the world where he has had a tremendous impact. Paul has also brought revival
to many in war torn, impoverished and tsunami stricken regions of the earth. His
nonprofit organization Dream Maker Ministries is building dreams and breaking
limitations.Paul’s Breakthrough Seminars inspire, revive, awaken, impregnate
with purpose, impart the fire of desire, catapult people into a new level of
self awareness, facilitate destiny discovery and dream fulfillment.Paul can be
contacted at: RevivingNations@yahoo.com 407 967
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